Monday, August 16, 2010

Getting your Ex back?

How do you get your ex back? What are some good tips to improve relations? Have you ever got back with your ex? If so, how?





I don't want to hear ';there are plenty of fish in the sea.';





Thanks.Getting your Ex back?
Don't do it. There's a reason their your EX.Getting your Ex back?
Plenty of people work out relationships, but depending on how old you are, it's easy to forget that what once was broken may not be as strong as it once was.





The biggest key is communication. You have to realize what went wrong and why, and be willing to work on it. It also really depends on what did go wrong, and if everyone is willing to forgive as well.





I have gotten back with an ex, but it didn't work out, I'm sorry to say. Neither one of us had really gotten over what had really pulled us apart to begin with. That doesn't mean it doesn't happen, though.
Well you probably don't want to hear it because you know it's true. You need to really think about why you two broke up and if trying again really is worth it. Most of the time it's not. There are some exceptions. But there really are so few. I have gotten back with an ex. I did it by completely moving on after a few weeks and getting my life straight and applying for school. Then he wanted to get back together. It didn't last. We may have resolved the issues we had before, but even worse ones came up, and it was never going to work out. So just be careful.
Getting your ex back can be very difficult, considering we often act on pure emotions than on rational thinking.





My best friend recently went through a breakup and found a website that she claims was the sole reason she was able to get back with her ex.





I was a bit skeptical at first, but it was pretty remarkable witnessing how she was able to get her ex back after she followed the advice from the website. The tactics are a bit unconventional, but they absolutely work - my friend is proof.





Here is the website if you are interested - hope it can do for you what it did for my friend:





http://winbackyourextoday.blogspot.com/
Instructions


Difficulty: Moderate


Step1


Be aloof. Being aloof doesn't mean be cold, just detached. By appearing upbeat and unphased by a breakup you maximize the chances that your ex will take notice and admire your cool head in spite of what might otherwise be an awkward situation.





Step2


Look good. Whether you're trying to win back an ex boyfriend or girlfriend, you should look your best. Taking pride in your appearance helps boost confidence and allows you to present yourself to the best of your ability.


Step3





Take it slow. Begin making contact a little bit at a time. Give your ex a call to see how he's doing or position yourself to run into him at the market. A relaxed, low-stress encounter could be just the right move to rekindle your ex's interest and win him back.


Step4





Be sincere. Once you've made contact and re-established communication, be sincere in your conversation. Express genuine interest in your ex's life since the breakup and focus on her well-being.





Step5


Increase contact. Ask your ex if he would consider having lunch with you to catch up. If all goes well, maintain your distance for a few days, but follow up with another warm invitation. Repeated friendly meetings increase trust and your chances of winning your ex back.





Step6


Prepare yourself to talk about the breakup. If your ex is interested in getting back together, you will inevitably need to discuss the breakup and the chances of avoiding another one in the future. Try not to place blame when you talk about the past, and move forward with a new start in mind to maintain your ex's trust.
Well you tried and broke up. You need to decide if you are both willing to compromise on your differences and if you can live with the final choices. There is a reason why you are each others ex. Perhaps some counseling will help you both.


Good luck!
I got back with my ex, I don't really know how. it was a hurtful mess though, you don't want to go there... if it's meant to happen, it'll happen.
ermm well it really depends if you did something wrong to her, or if it was just her. There's really no getting ur ex back...it takes 2. But wutever u do...don't be a stalker.





just be a friend.
There are plenty of fish in the sea.
just talk to him, text, call, flirt, hang out

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