Some say one of the best ways to get your ex back is to take care of yourself and look good?

A lot of people say that one of the best ways to getting your ex back is to take care of yourself and look the best you can and let him/her see how well you are doing. Well, that may be true for some, but what about the ones who once they see their ex doing so well they feel like they are better off without them so they don't want their ex back?





For example, my boyfriend and I broke up and I'm trying to take good care of myself and look good and rebuild my confidence so he can see me and miss me, but what if when he sees me he thinks to himself ';she looks really good and that means she's better off without me so i don't want to get back with her.';





What do you do then?Some say one of the best ways to get your ex back is to take care of yourself and look good?
You take care of yourself. Build up your confidence and self esteem and the point is to let him know you don't need him and you have moved on in your life. Your life is better without him in it. That is the sweetest ';revenge'; there is. There is not a whole lot of point looking to the past. An ex is an ex for a reason. It is best to move forward and make your life better.Some say one of the best ways to get your ex back is to take care of yourself and look good?
Do what you will do, but do it for yourself. By improving your situation, and your overall happiness, you will attract more than just an ex- you will attract better people overall. Like attracts like.





Build your life into the life you want to have for the next 50 years- get working on that soon as you can. Everything else always falls into place nicely from there!
is that why he left you in the first place you didn't take care of yourself there are 2 many what ifs in there get on with your life look after yourself for you and nobody else feel good about yourself because you like yourself not for anyone else be true to u and if he comes back hope its not for all the wrong reasons is he that good looking would he put in the effort for you, you are worth more than that good luck
What I think is this: You are living life not for yourself, but for ';him to see you in a certain way.'; That is sad, to say the least. If someone sees you and decides that you are better off without them - then you probably are!
Men don't think that way. If he sees you looking good and are with another guy he will try even harder. Why did you break up? If you want a good answer you must give all the facts. I hope this works out for you.
No...the best way is too make sure your new boyfreind looks good and takes care of HIMSELF.
why not look and feel good for YOURSELF???


Shakespeare said ';unto thine own self be true';
sounds like he has little confidence in himself. sounds like u r better off without him. don't know which situation of what ifs is yours but either way, move on. look good and feel good for u. u r the only one that matters. if u r happiest in jeans wear jeans. if u like skirts or your religion demands that, then wear blue cos that is what u like. not red cos someone said red is in. if u r happy with yourself it shows. do u really care if he misses u or if he wants u back. most of the time if u take an ex back, they think they have u over a barrel and can do what they want and u won't leave cos it didn't work the first time. he is an ex for a reason. move on.
even if u do get back together things will NEVER be the same, take it from me. you will just keep getting played. change and do better for yourself, and not for anybody else. a lot of guys will see u shine and you will have your pick to choose from. any guy that makes you want to change for him isnt worth changing for, he dumped you for a reason. Don't change what you don't need to, only change if you want to. Do what's best for you, consider him gone.
Try to improve yourself for you first. If he has left you or you have broken up, maybe he is not worth it anyway? I would stop trying to get him back as he probably is counting on it for one and is probably playing you for another.





TRy going on and moving forward. Meet other people, go out and live your life. ?Have goals other than trying to get him back. Any changes you make make sure it is because you want to.





You will meet someone else eventually, in the meantime, dating services? Do not try and get him back you are worth way more than that,
That is always my advice. The best thing you can do is look great and feel great, be happy. Go get a new hairstyle, buy some new trendy clothes, spend time with your girl friends that you have been ignoring. He will expect you to be home crying. Surprise him by being happy and don't whine and complain about him or anything. That will only confirm that he is happy you aren't his girlfriend. Find a new boyfriend that appreciates you. This boyfriend doesn't.