The only thing that'll even open the door is honesty. Tell him honestly and sincerely how sorry you are and that you want to give it another shot. Be prepared for him to say no because he may have moved on already beyond holding on to your common past. If you feel strongly enough about him, just let him know with no horse--it how you really feel. If it doesn't work, then at least you'll know you made the effort and afterwards, you might want to think a little about relationships and how you go into it for what you can give to the other person, and not for what you can get out of them and learn to be more felxible and accepting of people for who they are. That includes being supportive of them if they want to gop out for a baseball team. Compassion. before you treat someone any way, ask yourself how you would feel being treated that way, and then decide if that's how you want to go. If you go into a relationship for any other reason than you love the other person and accept them for who they are, you're in it for the wrong reasons. The fact that you still think of him even though you both have other people is your conscience telling you you f-----d up. Learn from your mistakes and don't repeat them.How to win your ex back after 7 months of silence?
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i know that this is not what you want to hear but i think that the best thing for you to do is for you to move on. i def. think that this would be for the best, because if things didn't work the first time there is that much more difficult for things to work out the second time. both of you will be riding on past memories and will also remember things that both of you did that made you mad from the past relationship. now if you want to ignore this advice here is what you did to do:
start off by talking to him, you want to establish communication between you two so that you can talk about more then just shallow things and get to know one another again.
if you talk and all things are good then start to hang out, handle it like a new relationship. of course the entire time you want to reasure him that you are no the same way this time around and that you have learned your lesson. show him that you will be better, don't tell him.
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