Howd you get ur ex girlfriend back?

broke up (second time) and didnt talk for ~4 weeks. I called her after that month and a week later, we slept together (no sex, but when we woke up we kissed some) , went to lunch, and went to a movie with each other where she grabbed my hand. This weekend I'm taking her out on a double date with my best friend.





If I want to start things back up with her what should I do?





I dont want to rush things and tell her how I feel because after the second time we broke up, I said somethings similiar to 'I really love you, its just bad timing.' She knows how I feel,, I don't know if she wants me back.





How can I spark up some of that old attraction she had for me? Someone told me I should call her only 1-2 times a week. Good?





gimme some tips on how you won back your ex? or on how your ex won you back?Howd you get ur ex girlfriend back?
Hi





Winning back your ex girlfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.





Here are helpful steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:





Don't Ask Her To Get Back Together





You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!





You're only shot at getting her back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.





But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.





So don't ignore her texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can't even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.


You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show her that your happiness isn't dependent on being with her.








Being Jealous Is Not The Way To Go





You must understand that ...SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it will probably be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It's ok if it bothers you, but don't let it show and don't call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don't have any right to tell her what to do.


If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.





Being Flexible Is Very Important





Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Rather be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.





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I hope you will get your ex girlfriend soon!Howd you get ur ex girlfriend back?
Same way you get any girl to be with you. Just be a jerk to them.