Anyways of getting back with your ex?

(Long Story)So im 16 and im missing my ex and im a guy. So when i was 12year old i got with this girl name aly, and we were with each other for about 8months every thing was going really good, but people keep telling stuff like or shes looks like your sister or she's to tall, so on so on. So i didn't know what to do so i told my sister to call her and tell her its over. Kinda stupud huh? Well anyways after a few years have past when i was about 13, 14 i try getting back with her but i was still the same shy me and i haven't hit men hood yet. So we dated a little bit but it didn't work out. So then i was talking to her today and we were talking about the past and laughting and how much fun it was and the stupid stuff we did. So then i told her do you still have that picture of you and me from along time ago and she said yea its in my closet some where i need to find it, cause i wanted to have one cause she has alot, so then i told can i come by and pick it up when i get out of house arrest. Yes im on house arrest -_-. But the main idea in this little story was that when i was little i couldn't speak for my self and i was really shy, but after i hit 15 i started thinking for my self and what i should do. So then when i was talking to her we had a 1hr conversation on IM. I asked her when i broke up with you did you cry? and she said yea i did and i had insoma, and i told for the fouth time in my life i said sorry and she said its ok. But anyways im gonna see her in about 2weeks so im gonna try to talk to her one on one and hangout with her, and i do miss her and i would not break her heart again cause i have a mind of my own now and i changed. Like really change. So what do you think would happen?Anyways of getting back with your ex?
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Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.





Here are some steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:





Don't Ask Her To Get Back Together





You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!





You're only shot at getting her back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.





But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.





So don't ignore someone's texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can't even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.


You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show her that your happiness isn't dependent on being with her.








Don't Be Jealous





You must understand that ...SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it will probably be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It's ok if it bothers you, but don't let it show and don't call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don't have any right to tell her what to do.


If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.





Be Flexible





Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Rather be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who doesn't take things too seriously is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.





These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. However, if you really want to get her back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. You can learn about the most popular and reliable guides in this helpful blog:





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I hope that you will get your ex girlfriend back soon!Anyways of getting back with your ex?
Wait till you hit manhood. Plenty of smokin' hot chicks once you get to college.
dont try problems that occur from the past will happen again.
Relax and enjoy your life, bro.
dude...





play with your Legos man....





you are only 16