hi, my ex gf finished with me with 3 weeks ago over a silly argument at work. she got with me 3 weeks after splitting with her 4 year boyfriends. My gf says she likes me, has got feelings for me and also fancies but for now she can only give me friendship. i spoilt my gf with gifts, flowers chocolates etc and also stayed in contact with her quite alot. i txt her and rung her alot but i stopped txting and rining her for the past 2 days, so she txt me today asking if i was ok? and she was glad i was ok so on plus i was getting alot more kisses in the txt than usual. Do you think she misses me ??? how can i get her back ?? I was too nice to my ex gf i gave her everything she wanted to from gifts to affection. i was with her 7 weeks and i never even slept with her, i never pestered her for sex nothing i just stood by her cos i genuinly liked her. i miss her 2 much and i wanan get back with her what do i do ? i fink i have bin 2 nice to her and that may have put her off how do i get her bakIs it possible to get your ex back ?
it depends on wether or not she says yes, u gotta just try n find ways of making her say yesIs it possible to get your ex back ?
did you not ask this a few days back?
it is possible but why.................????
what is in for you........
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Yes go for it
You can try but it doesn't usually work. Once caring is gone, it's gone and there's no reviving it. The act and effort to win one back who's decided to go is usually just viewed by them with scorn and contempt.
If you insist in pursuing this, the best thing to try (although it also doesn't usually work either) is to be a bit aloof, in the hopes that it may regenerate an interest borne of curiosity.
But if you chase her, you'll not only lose the bird, but probably her respect for you and your own self-esteem as well. Better off trying to just suck it up and get on with your life.
Another one will come along - and maybe a better one at that.
PS - forget the friendship thing, that's just a dodge to let you down easy, to get rid of you easily. Chances she's already got another ';friend'; lined up. They rarely make the move unless they're keen on someone else.
move on, sugar.
it didn't work the first time for a reason.
you miss the GOOD MEMORIES and you aren't thinking of all the drama and bad crap you have gone through.
trust me, getting back with exes is never a bright idea.
honestly that sounds like you were a rebound. if she's sayin she's got feeling for you after 7 weeks, she must have less tamed feelings for the guy she was with for 4 years. it's possible to get her back, especially if it was over some bs at work. i know what it's like to feel wanted and i also know what it's like to be NOT wanted. i think in the end you are going to end up being disapointed because she simply did NOT give herself enough time between boyfriends.. girls need their space, and though she took it from herself by dating you immediately after goin with that guy, its pretty unlikely for her to want the same type of meaningful relationship with you that she had with that dude. i think you're setting yourself up for failure with this one.. i would go back to sleep with her and then never talk to her again. =\
first of all, if u are under 18, why are u stressing ur self out, if u r over 18, then u need some english writing classes, its a shame
anyways back to ur problem, well sorry to say u have been too nice to her and she takin u on a back burner.
noticed that u have been all over her and now since u kinda stop she has been giving u attention, well there u go, that s how u are going to get her back, make ur self less available but in a nice
for example, u r talkin to her on the phone and uguys usually talk for 2 hours, cut it down to 30 minutes, thats going to shock,
if she asks u what wrong u reply nothing i m great, now if she asks u why dont u call me, u reply i have been busy doing some stuff, then she will asks why kind of stuff, u reply going out having fun with the guys etc, act busy act like u having fun and u dont need her, but at the same time be nice to her (but dont over extend ur self to her like u did before) if shes confronts u , u tell her u r the one that wanted to be friends and that what we are
good luck
Possible, yes. Definite, not really.
She's mad. If you've apologized and the argument is in the past, then let it be. If you still like her and she still likes you, both of you will find your way back to each other. just don't stalk her or scare her. keep yourself available, and let her come around.
you have the advantage of always saying no, not ready, i don't know. She decided to split with you. if she wants you back, then let her come back....you know for yourself that your door is open.
On the other hand, she probably does miss being spoiled, so be careful that she's just not needy of that stuff, instead of you.
good luck!
No chance, she hates you for posting this question over and over. I've already told you she'll be having marathon sex sessions with her ex while her parents are away....
Why would you want her back? I make it a rule to never go back for seconds, coz if it's finished once, it's more likely to finish again as there is obviously some incompatability somewhere. Find yourself someone new - she may appreciate you and being spoiled more than this last one did. She sounds like she just wants the attention anyway, but she'll find someone new and drop you like a ton of bricks.
Dump her, there has never been a female of any importance.
if you like her that much dont let her go just be frank with her about what you feel towards her.
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