Monday, August 16, 2010

Would you go back with your ex........?

Would you go back with your ex, after he done broke your heart due to his insecurities, if he was very determine to get you back?How long would you let him suffer? Would you sleep around?Would you go back with your ex........?
lol i would never go back with my Ex lol.... when i left she tried suicide.. and i hated the way she treated her 2 kids... And she was one Racist B****... so that kinda made me hate her...Would you go back with your ex........?
no i feel like if he realized his mistakes and is ready to put his downfalls behind him i wouldnt let him suffer at all i would help him especially if i know hes a good person.
Wouldnt go back to an insecure man.thats a real turn off.
first sleeping around is dangerous...making him suffer is childish...if he broke it off due to insecurities, they are probably still there...and obviously you were no help to these insecurities. He broke it off not to hurt you, but because the relationship was taking a toll on problems he already had. Obviously you need to grow up, and know that it is not all about you. No, don't take him back, give him a chance to find someone that is more understanding.
Hell . No!!! Don't do it! Going back out with your ex is like eating your own vomit. Once he's gone that's it. Everyone has one chance, just like life. One Chance that's it!! Let him suffer. He ruined the realtionship so it's his fault. Live your life and do what you want. You deserve to.
i wouldn't get back with an ex on a serious lvl. An Ex is an Ex for a reason...if it didn't work the first time it will most likely not work the second time around. I'm not one to waste my time twice for someone...b/c generally when you're in a relationship that doesn't work out and you break up on bad terms where you can't even salvage a friendship out of it...it was a waste your time and theirs then.





*shrug* of course i would and have slept around. You're no longer dating your ex so it's not cheating..you're single and free to do whatever you want, to whoever you want, with whoever you want, whenever you want. Girl, let me tell you...some of my fondest memories is in the my early to mid twenties when i had my own apt, lived by myself..lol except for my cats, and was single for the about...ohhh 5 years...give or take a few. *wink* i was never lonely on a Friday or Saturday night...to come to think about i wasn't lonely Monday-Thursday either. Ahhh, the different flavors of the week. I love my bf very very much...but it's been 10 mo's..got a little itch for some variety, but it's not worth messing up our love.
It's not about the time, it's about if you can forgive and forget what he do to your pain.
He's an ex for a reason - make up break up make up break up is useless! The two most powerful things you can say to another human being are ';I love you and want to be with you'; and ';I don't love you and I don't want to be with you'; and you shouldn't say either without meaning them. So did you mean it when you broke up? If so don't expect that thing to have changed. Sleeping around unless it's with his friends will not get back to him and just makes you look bad (depending on how hot the guys are of course! ;) ) but kidding aside - if you think there is something there, be friends, and make him realise what he lost, but don't go back - you said he's insecure, so when he breask your heart again, as the saying goes - hurt me once shame on you, hurt me twice shame on me! Don't do it girl.
listen, he's an ex for a reason, right? why would you want to punish yourself by delving back into a situation that had you broken hearted. My motto is that i never do replays: no matter how much they beg, no matter how they claim they have changed. going backwards is a big mistake
Nope..they're Ex's for a reason..move on!
i would take him back as long as the break up wasnt bc of him cheating or ne thing like that.if u just broke up bc of his insecurities and u no that he loves u and sincerly wants u back then i would give him another chance,as long as ur ready as well for the relationship to continue on.no i wouldnt sleep around if i was even considering getting back w/him.
you def shouldnt take them back you will regret it maybe not now but maybe a year or two down the road when you are in to deep and cant back out now....think about it
nevr do this mistake...... coz da same reasons r again gonna cause a breakup n the second one is really pathetic... m xperienced.... take mah advice, don't patch up wit ur ex ...EVER!!!!
I would not get back together with him, moving on is what is best.
you know something.....I would NEVER in my life go back with my ex...i am only friends with one maybe two of my ex's and i wouldnt date them either......it just depends on who you are :-)
If I still had feelings for him I would go back, as long as I knew I could trust him and let past issues go. It may end the same way again but I would rather know that not know!
You know that saying everyone deserves a second chance? Sometimes they do, but sometimes they dont depending on the circumstances. Follow your heart...if you truely can get over the fact that he hurt you before, and you think he deserves another chance than give to him. Put yourself in his shoes when making this decision. Realize though that he can hurt you can again and you dont want to be kicking yourself later if he does so think about it for a little before you decide. Its important that you can trust him first.
if he has changed and learned something from the break up. I wouldnt sleep around because i would be only letting myself down
If I really loved him I would take him back. I would want an explanation from him of course and realize his insecurities and accept him for who he is and tell him he has nothing to be insecure about. I dont see any point in making anyone suffer. No I would not sleep around if my heart belonged to him.
Are you prepared to get your heart broken again? Could you stand to have the same thing happen twice? From the same person, the second time around would hurt a lot more. Has he changed? If he was insecure to start with and that is what caused the break up, why do you think it wont happen again? I would move on... Everything happens for a reason. I used to get so mad when people would tell me that, and now that I am older and wiser, I realize its true. HE was a STEPPING STONE and it was time to move on, no matter how much I didnt see it at the time. Good luck!
i would never go back out with an ex


hes an EX you gotta move on =)
no i wouldnt sleep around just to make him mad, that would only show that i have no self respect





but if he's willing to fight for your heart, give the poor guy a chance but never a third chance
sleeping around is no good for u.. and to be honest it's just sad! if u love em and u wanna make it work then go for it.. if not then move on.. they have real feelings so dont mess them around..

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