Friday, August 20, 2010

How to get back with your ex-girl friend?

I don't know what to do, I fall so much for her and she still leave me. We are back to friends now, but i still very love her. I had once ask her about our broke up reason, but she dose not wanna talk about it. I just couldn't resist thinking of her. Help wanted, PleaseHow to get back with your ex-girl friend?
hi wel it seams she had her own reasons but thats the past it helps that your still friends so theres still somthing there so thats a start since there was a past reason its still a chance to say do things a little more diffrently if she wont open up at least you can still care lisin think how to make life fun as friends give the new friendship a much better chance than before she may not see it but love is how much 2 put into it so go with being friends help things to grow just trough lisining caring planing nice things its best way to win a heart really.How to get back with your ex-girl friend?
very few girls like to 'tell' you why. from experience, i know that its one of the hardest things for them to do. They feel like it will hurt you too much. Ive only had like 2 girlfriends in which they ve actually came up straight and said, you only have a four pack, the other guy has 6 and a half so im leaving you,,, hehe

give up, your going to come off as a desperate man or from the sound of it,,,boy.
GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE! I know that seems impossible now but you have too. Dont believe any of that romantic BS about true love finds a way. IT DOESNT! Go out meet a new better girl and be with her, never speak to your ex ever again. Remember she left you. Most likely the reason she left you was to find a better guy and she knows that if she cant you will still be there for her. Hence the friends act.
people are so stupid, rude and ignorant, Don't pay them mind they have nothing better to do with themselves then criticize.

About your situation just set it free if it comes back then its meant to be.

Good luck and ignore peoples stupid responses, i don't even know why they bother responding if your grammar bothers them, but I guess they have to do something to make them feel good about themselves.
You could get rich then she would be a crack ho and you could pick her up in your limo and live happily ever after and all that. Or you could move on and quit dreamin cause she has moved on and is probably intamate with a black man right now!
Well I can tell you this: if your speech sounds anything like your writing, then I can think of a good reason why she wouldn't want to be with you.
Pray and ask GOd to give you the strength to leave her alone because she's not worth it.
...learn to spell before you call upon the help of others.
Give up, and if she is interested she will come to you.
Zayro's response is stupid but true

How do you get back with your ex.boyfriend when you just broke up with him last week ?then say i want you back?

well i just broke up with my bf.and i gave him an excuse and i said because it was a family reason and i don't think i can deal with a relationship now.and our school just had a festival and the whole time i was with him and i totally forgot to bring money and then he was really sweet enough to buy me food and a drink we even were messing around like chasing each other.I actually felt a connection with him like the 4th of july.out of our whole relationship.he told me that i was the first gf that he could say i love just 2 weeks he even wrote me a poem of what he loved about me and he gave me a nickname it's Funny bunny.cut huh?idk what to say just that i want him back.and im so srry i hurt him deeply should i tell him in person how i feel and such... help i really like him as much as before.How do you get back with your ex.boyfriend when you just broke up with him last week ?then say i want you back?
Winning back an ex is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.

if you desire to get your ex back check these 3 recommended steps: of the most important things is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.

Don't let your emotion and of course your depression keep you down. You can't achieve a goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.

2.Don't annoy your ex boyfriend. Men just don't like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to seek comfort by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don't continuously make phone calls to him, email him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. It's better to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting him back.

3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it's recommended to get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you've picked up a few pounds, start exercising and try to eat healthy foods. When you look good on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. If you will feel good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, this includes your ex boyfriend.

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you should tell him how you feel and tell him you made a mistake and you didn't meant to and tell him that you do want him back and if he wants maybe you should give him some time to think or give him some space to think about it. hope i helped!=) oh and ask yourself why you broke up with him in the first place cuz maybe you just get along better when your not together ...
I can tell you really like him, but it's a hard situation. He might not be too willing to let you back in right away because you hurt him, but give it time and just show him you made a mistake and you were only thinking of him. Let him know how much you care.
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if youre as close as you say you are, and he really likes you, hes gonna be happy to be able to go out with you. tell him that you were confused. ppl are allowed to be confused about relationships. its perfectly normal.
You should just go out with someone else
just tlk
Just ask him. Meet up with him and say ';Look..I am so deeply sorry. And I really do regret it so much. I know this is not an easy decision to make...but, I really want you back. I realized that I let one amazing person go, and I want that amazing person back in my life. Forgive me please. Will you be my boyfriend again?';

If he says that he needs time. Give him time! Don't rush it at all. If he rejects...simply move on.
Do you really like him ask your self that and why did you actualy break up with him in the first place? If you guys are getting along btter when your not together maybe you guys should just be friends and i know because i have a really good guy friend and we flirt alot. but if you dont want him going for another girl then you grab him girl. Its to late to grab my true love he has a girlfriend and is cheating on her! boys are weird.
I can see you have true feelings about this boy, he seems to me like a very good and responsible guy. You should really talk to him and let him know your true feelings an tell him why you want him back because I can tell he really does want you back. What would be really romantic, even if you havent kissed him is before you start talking to him, if he is turned around poke him and when he turns around facing you just kiss him. It will make him blush and make him realize how much he missed it and that you truly still care about him.I hope this helps you! Best regards.


How to get back with your ex boyfriend?

ive been dating this guy for two months but we broke up last night.

it was because of how i was acting around him after i found out something .. basically i was acting cold towards him - during that time, he said we werent as tight and faded away and doesnt like me that much anymore. so he said he doesnt wanna lead me on .it makes me upset thinking i started it because he said that before he liked me alot etc. i dunno .. before we started dating wed get with each other like every week for about 2/3 months and then started to like each other. so when we broke up he said he wnats to restart how we used to be - as friends. because he hates the drama and everything and likes my company. he kept saying how he likes spending time with me that im fun etc and hopes we cna stay friends still. i want that, but i still want him back. how do i do it?How to get back with your ex boyfriend?
Tell him you need to talk to him and when you guys talk (face to face) tell him how you feelHow to get back with your ex boyfriend?
You can do that by making him realize what he had lost. How do you do that? You should avoid him for the meantime. If you constantly run into each other or have common friends, then cut contact. Don't talk or text him. That way, he can miss you. Then send him a letter telling him how you still feel about him and that you want to get back together. Tell him you understand and accept the current situation and that you are still hoping that things will work out well. Inform him that you are giving him space, in case he needs it. Reiterate that you'd like to give the relationship another chance. End it with something like ';call me'; or ';my lines are always open anytime you need me.';
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  • How to get back with your ex and not make the same mistakes?!?

    We lived together for 3 years. 4 weeks ago we had a fight, I moved out and told him I want to break up. It was only my emotions, and did not want to do that. I love him sooo much and want him in my life. Now we are trying to work things out. We're having great time when we see each other now and understand that we could solve all our problems without causing so much damage. How can we get back together and not do the same mistakes?! We love each other soo much and I know that we hurt the most who we love the most, but I dont want hurt him ever again...How to get back with your ex and not make the same mistakes?!?
    You'll have to learn how to mature past your emotions. Sometimes we can be too emotional. If you are going to go at it again make sure to find that outlet that helps you to control your emotional impulses or the next time he may call it quits and you may not get another chance.How to get back with your ex and not make the same mistakes?!?
    Never make any decisions in anger again. When someone does that, it turns out to tbe the wrong thing to do.

    Can you really get your ex back? And how?

    For the past year I have been fighting for my ex to get her back. We have had a great three year long distance relationship. When she was out with her friends she sometimes got hurt and caused me to worry, and I called her when she was out with her friends just to make sure that she was okay. Becuase of that I was labeled controlling/posessive by her mother and her friends. It was during that time when we split up, as it was her mothers idea to see other people and get together later on. It was one of her best friends who convinced her to dump me and go out with him. I have given her one month and two weeks of ''space' by her request. Her mood changes to her own friendly peronsality to down right nasty. After six months, the guy dumps her. I have treated her with respect, honesty and love, and yet she treats me like I have done something worse. She has told me things like 'be strong, And it'll work out between us in the end.'' Now she says it wont work out.What can I do to get her backCan you really get your ex back? And how?
    i ruin my relationship with my girl recently.....after 3 years and a half...i wish i know the answer too

    How to get your ex back?

    Basically i still love my ex and our relationship ended 5 months ago but i cant seem to get over him no matterwht i try. the thing is he has said that he doesnt no what he wants but he quite likes one of my best friends. the thing is my friends ex likes me but i dont wanna go out with him knowing i still ike my ex. its reli confusing i just want to see if there are anyways to try and win him back. write back plese nosilly ones like ehs not worth it coz that wont work coz he means it to me. please help :SHow to get your ex back?
    You can't win him back. You can only give yourself time to get over him. Don't date the other guy if you feel too confused - though it may help you get over him. Just realise that your feelings are normal and will go away - focus on yourself and other things in your life. Your only chance of getting him back is if he sees that you don't need him. When he sees you happy without him he will start to process whether or not he wants to be with you [he won't do this while he knows you want him back - that will only make him value you less and run faster away]. When he sees you have the character to be happy with out him your personality will shine through and in time he may return.How to get your ex back?
    See if he is still into you before you do this. Okay send him txts or you can aim him because it is easier than talking in person. Or you can ask him if he wants to hang out, i have been in these situations, but if he doesn't, then just be friends because he probably isn't worth wasting your time and there are lots of other guys out there for you, ones that will love you forever, but if you really want him, go for it girl!

    Good luck :)
    If your relationship ended 5 months ago. let it be done. If you show ';him'; that you are still after him, it may appear to him that you are weak. Good chance of him taking advantage of your vulnerability. Don't leave your future in his hands. Try to move on, even though it's not easy. Show him that you're strong and have pride. Make him jealous of you. As for his friend, don't go there. If you start dating his friend, you and your ex will still be in the same circle. That will make it harder for you to move on. Don't let your ex call the shots. I wish you strength in getting pass this person.

    Why would you even considering dating him again if he likes your best friend and why would you even considering dating your friends ex? Uh, you all need to stop playing Dawson's Creek by boyfriend/gilfriend hoping and move on.

    And don't tell us what NOT to comment back with.. If you really want advice, let us tell you the TRUTH and if you're not ready for the truth, then you shouldn't post questions when you've already make up your mind as to what you want to hear.
    Everything happens for a reason. You can't force him to get back with you. If he is already over you, you really don't have a chance of getting back together.

    I would move on as quick as possible. Go out with your girlfriends, hang with your family more, i dunno, but there are plenty of guys out there. I'm sure another will come along soon!
    this is a messed up situation you, u like your ex and he wants your friend but your friends ex wants you. yet u still have feelings for your ex- man. let it go it sounds messed up and confusing why would u wanna be so complex and live on the edge of things like that? life is short leave the drama for someone else and move on.
    Work on yourself. Live for today, not yesterday.

    Get your nails done, get a new hairdo.

    Discover a new hobby.

    He is the loser who could not recognize a good thing when he had it.

    It is truly his loss, not yours. You can do better and certainly deserve it.

    As my old counselor used to say, Good riddance to bad rubbish!!!
    Sing to him, ';Get Back'; By Demi Lovato. :]

    I'm kidding.

    The best thing is to move on.

    One thing I know about most guys, though is that if you conspicuously chase after him, he will move farther away.

    Guys like to chase after the girls.
    I can't undertsand how your typing but sounds childishh; like middle school gay relationships.

    I'd say move on; expierence other people.

    You sound like 13; way to young to love a boy.

    Live your life before you have to settle down :)

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    Remember one thing-If you loves somebody just set him\her free,if it comes back it's your and if not it was never yours.

    As per what i can observe is you really have to come out of this relation.
    If he likes your friend and has expressed that to you or you found at even I would not waste time trying. If he still liked you, you wouldnt know if he liked your friend weather he really does or not.

    He's an ex for a reason .... spell check is a great tool for ones who need it :-)
    Send him a text message to say you love him!
    use spell check, then get over him and wait for the guy of your dreams
    wait if he likes your friend then move on duh!!

    Getting your ex back?

    My ex and I broke up 2 months ago. Since then we talked for a bit, then she told me she wanted to stop communicating till she was ready. Almost two weeks ago she sent me and email, and we have been communicating, and seeing each other almost everyday, if only for a few minutes. She told me that she loves me, that she deeply cares about me, and she wishes we could start like we did at the beginning all over again. She also said that she isn't sure what she wants, and last night she said she isn't sure we could do that. She goes back and forth everyday on what she feels. She's said several times that sometimes she feels like running away with me and getting married, and other times, she wants to just get away completely from me. I've told her how I felt, and that I'd like to start over again, and that I love her very much. when we first broke up, I was trying to get back with her, and she said that I was pressuring her, and it was pushing badly.

    Now, I see my chance, but I'm worried about saying the wrong thing to her and pressuring her more to the point she will be gone. She is hanging out with a guy quite a bit, but she says he's just a friend and that she was/is only interested in me.

    What should I do?Getting your ex back?

    Winning back your ex girlfriend is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.

    Here are helpful steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:

    Don't Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together

    You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!

    You're only shot at getting your ex girlfriend back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.

    But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.

    So don't ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can't even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.

    You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn't dependent on being with her.

    Being Jealous Is Not The Way To Go

    You must understand that ...SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it will probably be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It's ok if it bothers you, but don't let it show and don't call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don't have any right to tell her what to do.

    If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.

    Be Flexible

    Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Instead, be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.

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    Good luck!Getting your ex back?
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    I would get over it as much as it hurts. You don't any more pain coming from her. Take a breather from relationships for a while and decide where you stand then