Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How to get back with your ex?

ok like me and my ex have been apart for about a year now except im starting to like him again. His really nice and sweet and funny just like he was before we were going out. He tells me like everything though because we are still good friends, except he likes another girl and he asked me how he could go out with her but still hasnt asked her out yet. And the girl he likes is a family friend he sees all the time. Im really needing help. Thanks!How to get back with your ex?

Winning back an ex is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.

If you want to win your ex boyfriend back check these 3 recommended steps:

1.The first tip is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.

Don't let your emotion and of course your depression keep you down. You can't achieve the goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Bad thoughts are destructive behavior and you don't want them..

2.Don't bother your ex boyfriend. Guys just don't like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to seek comfort by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don't continuously sms him, email him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. You want to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want you back. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your ex boyfriend back.

3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it's recommended to get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you've picked up a few pounds, start exercising and eating healthy. When you look good on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, others will easily see it. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.

These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back.Anyhow, if you really want to get him back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them...).

You can learn about the best and most popular guide on how to get your ex boyfriend back that was very helpful for me in this article:鈥?/a>

Hope it helps.How to get back with your ex?
Perhaps you only like the IDEA of how your ex was in the past or you just have a hard time thinking about him being with another girl. I think you should let him go but if you really want to be with him again, the only way to do it is to be straight up with him.

Think about it. On one hand, you have:

putting yourself out there and -be shut down and know for sure what his intentions are - or having a chance of getting back with him


Waiting too long and -having slim to no chance of getting back with him, losing him to someone else and never know if you two could have worked.

This might sound cheesy but in life, sometimes, you have to go all-in or go home. Oh and i'm sure you already know that guys like when girls are direct with them when it comes to love.

If you do get back with him, perhaps you should communicate with him better. I have a feeling he's been more open with you as freinds than as a couple. If that%26lt;s the case, perhaps, you should let him know that you like it better that way. Than again, I may be wrong with my assumption.

Good luck!
A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!

There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.

Here is a great website on how to get your ex back. Check it out if you are interested:
I read ';how to get back at your ex? ';, thinking you needed advice on how to get even :P lol.

Don't date him. You should never date anyone more than once. If it is a serious realationship your looking for. It'll feel like your walking the same path, and either you or him will get bored.
friendship comes without any reason so there is no restriction but having friendship with x lover is impossible
Friends can be lovers.

But ex-lovers can never be Friends.

Bare that in mind!
datz purly bull **** dat lowerz cant b frndz ........d relationship of a frnd iz much bigger dan a lover....... dj
Go here for free email coaching about how to get an ex back:
1. Try not to get into an ego battle by insulting or abusing your ex. This'll only strengthen his/her resolve to stay away from you. And the moment your ex becomes totally sure that he/she made the right decision by breaking up with you, you can forget about a reunion!

2. Don't resort to emotional blackmail out of desperation. Also avoid any attempt to make your ex feel guilty about the break up. Even if he/she gets soft on you, it'll be temporary at best. Plus, it can lead to a lot of resentment.

3. Keep in mind that both of you might not be thinking too clearly right now. As a result, out of keenness to get your ex back, you might delude yourself that you have changed and things will be better now. You can't change overnight, so try not to go down this path or you'll only set yourself up for disappointment and more pain.

4. Avoid the sympathy angle by trying to show your ex how badly you've been hit by the break up. Even if you do manage to soften him/her up, it's not going to bring your ex back. And if your ex realizes that you're using this as a ploy, you can wave goodbye to him/her forever!

5. Don't tell your ex that you're still in love with him/her under any circumstances! Remember, the break up has more to do with your ex's feelings, not yours. And you can't ignore or disrespect his/her decision to call it off.

6. Never ever plead your case. You're not a charity case; someone to feel sorry for and return to! You're probably not feeling too good after the break up anyway, and you don't need another blow to your self confidence and self image! Besides, a groveling ex doesn't make a pretty picture!

7. If love, emotions, compassion, failed to get your ex back, how can logic, analysis or rationale work?! Your only chance to get your ex back is if there's still a crazy mutual attraction between the two of you!

8. Don't call, meet or text your ex's family or friends. That's eating into his/her space and you can be sure it won't be appreciated. No amount of persuasion by a third party will help you in getting your ex back.

9. Since you've been in a relationship with each other, you are probably familiar with the other's personality and behavior. So, an attempt to win your ex over with presents is bound to backfire! Your ex is likely to see right through your actions and figure out the 'hidden' motive behind it and that won't look too good!

10. Avoid applying pressure on your ex to get back to you. It's a known fact that the more you push someone, the more they pull away.

If you've already made some of these mistakes, don't beat yourself up over it. Most people act this way after a break up. It's not unusual at all. Now that you know what to avoid, don't make anymore mistakes if you want to get your ex back........
Your case reminded me of a friend of mine...I can truly understand your plight. My ';girl friend'; was also in your shoes when she break up with her boyfriend of 3 years. She regretted it deeply and she simply cannot forget him even after 1 year had passed. I told her that if she still loves him, then she must do all she can to win him back...

There are simply various proven ways to win a guy back...the following is the ONE TIP that i gave to my friend and she managed to win her guy back!

The one tip that I would like to share with you is to induce humor when trying to win him back. When I say humor, I meant that you can converse with him in a humorous way and make him laugh. Remember, time can heal anything but laughter can heal anything FASTER than ever! If you can make him laugh and give him the impression that he still enjoy being with you, you are already on your way to winning him back to you again.

Now that I have reveal one of the most effective tips for you win back an ex boyfriend, it is time for you to take action and make these tips work for you.

I wish you all the best!

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