How do you get your ex back?

I know everyone is going to say something about, well if he's your ex, then you shouldn't try...but it's not like that at all. Our ending in the first place, was a misunderstanding and we are dating again, not exclusively, but we did when I broke up with him in April, then we stopped talking for a few weeks and I thought it was over then, until we talked again and decided to try it again. I think if he wasn't into me, and trying it out again, he would quit---he's 32 and ready to settle down with one girl for the rest of his life now. I'm in my early 20s, but am willing to give it another shot with him. I know he still loves me-we say it all of the time, but I just want him to become exclusive with me. What can I do to help him be with me and only me?





I've been dating other people too, so it's not bad, but he and I both know that the ones we've dated aren't like us for each other. We want to be together, but he says he's in no hurry to be in a relationship. I have a feeling we'll get back before I go back to college in August, but how can i be sure?





Thanks so much you guys.How do you get your ex back?
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Winning back your ex boyfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.





If you want to win your ex boyfriend back then these 3 simple steps should help achieve your goal:





1.The first tip is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.





Don't let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can't achieve the goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Bad thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.





2.Don't annoy your ex boyfriend. Guys just don't like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to seek comfort by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don't continuously sms him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. It's very important give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want you back. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your lovely ex back.





3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it will be great to get some new makeup. more recommended things to get are new clothes and new hairstyle. If you've picked up a few pounds, start doing some exercises and try to eat healthy foods. When looking good on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. If you will feel good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.





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do you want to settle down? what do you want? if you dont want to settle down yet then your wasting his time and yours! hes gonan want kids soon, are you ready for kids yet? if you both want the same thing, then bloody well tell each other and stop dancing around the matter.. communication is the key, if you havent got that you've got nothin ya might as well quit now.
Sounds like  abit of a roller coaster.


 In terms of getting your ex back, there is a good news and bad news. The good news: nearly 90% of those who tried to get their ex back were successful. The bad news: it will never be easy as the emotions of breakup could only cause your relationship to get worse.





Properly Using Time





Reuniting with your ex should never be dictated by time. This is the first misconception of former lovers – they think that the only reason why they separated is because they are being replaced so they have to hurry in getting their ex back. But insisting to get your ex back soon will only get you further apart. Let your ex “breathe” by actually separating. A few days apart should be more than enough to help you and your ex get things back fast.





“Sorry” is Always the Magic Word





Pride could often cause couples to breakup since no one wants to think it’s their fault. While that fact could be true at first glance, the relationship ended because both parties didn’t do their best to keep the relationship intact. That means you are also partly to blame why the relationship ended.





When you talk to your ex about your relationship, admit that you may have done or haven’t done something to keep the relationship together. But don’t be sorry to the point you’re already begging for forgiveness. Just be sincere the first time you say you’re sorry.





 
The fastest way to get ex back is to get to the root of the problem directly. Examine what caused the break up. If the problem lies with you then ask yourself if you are willing to change to correct that problem. If you are then make a firm resolution that you will really change and you will exert effort to hold on to that decision forever. If you are not willing to change then think of a way to compromise. There may be things that you can do that will compensate for whatever it is that you cannot change all together.





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